Hannah Weaver explained;
"A lot of times in Christian community, especially here at Cornell, we are afraid to share our struggles with others. Whether it is because we want to seem perfect, or we are afraid of being judged, we all at some point try to hide from revealing our sin. We think that only God needs to know about it and no one else does. However, it is this attitude that typically keeps us from truly repenting from sin and therefore from experiencing God's forgiveness through grace. The truth is we are sinful. We are not perfect - only Christ was perfect. He died for us so that we can live for eternity with Him in Heaven."
Hannah is dating another Cru senior, David Kim. During her share time, she talked about their relationship and courageously opened up about some of the ways they had really struggled as a couple to maintain sexual purity. She explained that it was only by opening up, sharing their struggle with friends and confessing sin to others that they were enabled to live differently and pursue holiness.
David also shared at our meeting, talking mostly about his first couple of years at Cornell. I met David his freshman year and invited him out to a small group Bible study that I was leading with Edgar Lei. He did come out a few times and Edgar and I repeatedly encouraged him to get plugged in with Christian community, but he just never really got involved. David had grown up in a strong Christian home and church but it seemed like he was on the path to being one of those students who "fall away from the faith" when they get to college. I'd see him on campus and he'd show up to Church on Sundays, but he was always telling us he was too "busy" to get more involved.
David was on the Cornell track team, and no doubt the course load at Cornell is arduous, but what David was really 'busy" doing was watching hours and hours of T.V! Growing up, his family didn't have cable and he hadn't been allowed to watch a lot of television, so when he got to college, he decided to use his new found freedom to make up for lost time! He shared with us a whole list of substandard dramas from the CW network that he dedicated his freshman year to. It was downright hilarious and sad all at the same time. Consuming t.v. was the focus of his freshman year at Cornell, and even extended into the summer!
Ironically, it was the Jim Carey movie "Yes Man" that helped usher David to a new place spiritually. In the movie, Jim Carey's character has his life altered simply by saying "yes" and making himself available to the opportunities that come his way. David watched it over the summer and felt inspired to do something similar. He pledged to say "yes" to more invitations in the fall. Enter Mercy Gbenjo. Mercy is one of our interns now, but back when she was a student she was also on the track team. At the beginning of Dave's sophomore year she invited him to come out to our Fall Getaway, and he said 'yes.' It was a half-hearted and reluctant 'yes', but by showing up to the getaway, the course of his college life changed.
Dave encouraged everyone to remember what matters and to help each other to see and savor Jesus. I am so grateful for both Hannah and David and really glad that by grace, Dave was rescued from wasting his life at Cornell! Both of these guys were very dedicated leaders in Cru!
